Huge disclaimer: I didn't write this. But oh.... I wish I had. It's been around for quite awhile, but will probably be new to a number of readers of this blog. In honor of Disability Awareness in Employment Month, I am proud to present:
Sighted people enjoy rich and full lives, working, playing, and raising families. They run businesses, hold public offices, get arrested, and teach your children!
People who are sighted may walk or ride public transportation, but most choose to travel long distances by operating their own motor vehicles, usually one passenger to a car. They have gone through many hours of extensive training to learn the rules of the road in order to further their independence. Once that road to freedom has been mastered, sighted people earn a legal classification, and a driver’s license, which allows them to operate a private vehicle relatively safely and independently.
Sighted people are accustomed to viewing the world in visual terms. This means that in many situations they will not be able to communicate orally, and may resort to stammering, pointing, hand-waving, or other gesturing. Subtle facial expressions may also be used to convey feelings in social situations. Calmly alert the sighted person to his or her surroundings by speaking slowly, in a normal tone of voice. Questions directed at the sighted person help focus attention back on the verbal, rather than the merely visual.
Often they don't remember things. In fact, this is one of the most painful aspects of the visual affliction, the degree to which sight inhibits detailed memory. Often, the sighted person must reacquire the same information each time it is needed. You can help by being sensitive to their struggle, and by learning to anticipate their needs and providing them with the information they seek when it is necessary. Don't tell them too much too quickly. Be sensitive to the capacities of the individual with whom you are dealing. These limitations vary from person to person, and it is deeply upsetting to a sighted person to realize that you recognize their mental short comings.
At times, sighted people may need help finding things, especially when operating a motor vehicle. Your advance knowledge of routes and landmarks, bumps in the road, and traffic lights, will assist the sighted person in finding their way quickly and easily. Your knowledge of building layouts can also assist the sighted person in navigating complex shopping malls and office buildings. Sighted people tend to be very proud, and are reluctant to ask for assistance. Be gentle, yet firm.
The sighted person relies exclusively on visual information. His or her attention span fades quickly when reading long texts, so it is best to write in bulleted lists of very brief items. The use of bright colors will help the sighted person stay focused. Computer information is presented to the sighted in a graphical manner to assist them in comprehending their world. Coordination of hands and eyes is often a preoccupation with sighted people, so the computer mouse, a handy device that slides along the desk top, saves sighted people from having to learn confusing keystrokes. With one button, the sighted person can move around his or her computer screen quickly and easily, if not necessarily efficiently. People who are sighted are generally not accustomed to synthetic speech, and may have great difficulty understanding even the clearest synthesizer- falling asleep between syllables, or becoming distracted by a spot on the carpet. Be patient, and be prepared to explain many times how your computer works.
Reading is accomplished by the sighted person through a system called "print," which is a series of images drawn in a two dimensional plane. People who are sighted generally have a poorly developed sense of touch. Braille is completely foreign to them, and severe bouts of disorientation can sometimes result from over exposure to the use of the higher senses.
Sighted people cannot function well in dimly lit conditions, and are generally completely helpless, and often devastatingly frightened in total darkness. Their homes are usually very brightly lit (at great expense), as are businesses that cater to the sighted. Naturally, these costs are passed on to the consumer.
People who are sighted do not want your charity. They want to live, work, and play alongside you on as equal a basis as possible. You must ignore their tendency to display feelings that they are superior to you. Failing to allow them this delusion may promote aberrant and antisocial behavior. The best thing you can do to support sighted people in your community is to simply open yourself to their world, and help open their limited world to the bounty of your experience. These citizens are vital contributing members of the community, real people with thoughts and feelings, hopes and dreams, and a story to tell. Take a sighted person to lunch today and make them feel like you truly care.
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